This sort of militant postmodern cynicism and deconstruction regarding the ethics of the Roman Empire and its primary players is not welcomed with open arms on this forum. Certainly debate is encouraged, but we've seen people before itching to lecture us Romanophiles on the litany of alleged evils of our cultural forebears. They tend not to last long. No one, after all, came to this site to listen to sermons.
I strongly echo the suggestion, Cato, that you direct your deconstruction of Roman morality to the Ethics forum, where that sort of thing is allowed a certain indulgence. Otherwise, the administration and the majority of members really do not care to long entertain that particular venue of debate.